If you're embracing a new chapter in your gender identity journey, a naming ceremony offers a meaningful way to mark this profound transition, surrounded by love, support, and celebration.
What is a Gender Identity Naming Ceremony?
A gender identity naming ceremony celebrates the name you've chosen for yourself as part of your gender journey. It's a ritual that acknowledges your courage, honours your truth, and marks the beginning of living fully as yourself.
These ceremonies can be:
- Intimate and private (just you, or with one or two close supporters)
- Celebrated with friends and chosen family
- Serious and reflective, or joyful and celebratory
- Spiritual, secular, or anything in between
The format is entirely yours to decide. What matters most is creating a moment that feels meaningful and affirming to you.
Why a Naming Ceremony Matters
Changing your name isn't just paperwork, it's a declaration of identity. A naming ceremony gives weight and intention to that declaration. It creates a moment where you:
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Claim Your Name Publicly
Speaking your chosen name aloud in ceremony makes it real in a different way. It's not just something on a form; it's your name.
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Receive Affirmation
If you choose to include others, they can voice their support, use your name, and witness your truth. This affirmation can be incredibly powerful.
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Mark a Before and After
Rituals help us process change. A naming ceremony creates a clear moment of transition, a "before" and "after" in your journey.
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Celebrate Rather Than Simply Change
Instead of just updating documents, you're actively celebrating who you're becoming (or who you've always been).
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Sensitive Consultation
I’ll offer compassionate, judgement-free conversations about what you’d like from your ceremony, while respecting your privacy, your pace, and your vision.
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Personalised Ceremony
I'll craft a ceremony that honours your journey, your chosen name, and what this transition means to you.
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Flexible Structure
Your ceremony can be whatever length and format feels right, from 10 minutes to a longer, more elaborate celebration.
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Name-Blessing Ritual
A special ritual where your name is spoken, acknowledged, and celebrated. This can take various forms depending on what resonates with you.
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Safe, Affirming Space
I'm an active LGBTQ+ ally who approaches these ceremonies with deep respect and genuine celebration of your authentic self.
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Ceremony Keepsake
You'll receive a copy of your ceremony script as a lasting reminder of this pivotal moment.
The Process
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Step One: Confidential Consultation
Reach out when you're ready. We'll have a private conversation about your vision, your story (as much as you want to share), and what feels important to include.
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Step Two: Designing Your Ceremony
I'll create a ceremony that reflects your journey and your identity. You'll review it and we'll adjust until it feels exactly right.
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Step Three: Choose Your Setting
Decide whether you want this ceremony alone, with close supporters, or with a larger group. Choose a location that feels safe and meaningful.
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Step Four: Your Naming Day
We'll gather to honour your chosen name, celebrate your courage, and mark this important moment in your life.
Ceremony Elements
Your naming ceremony might include:
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Name Declaration
A moment where you speak your chosen name and claim it as yours.
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Symbolic Rituals
- Lighting candles to represent leaving behind a former name and embracing your true name
- Writing your chosen name and placing it somewhere meaningful
- Creating or receiving a name blessing
- Releasing something symbolic of your old identity
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Witness Statements (Optional)
If you're including others, they can offer short affirmations or promises to honour your name and identity.
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Personal Reflections
Space for you to speak about what this name means to you, your journey, or your hopes for the future (if you wish to).
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Celebration
Closing with joy, music, or whatever feels celebratory to you.
Why Choose Regina
As a Brazilian woman who has lived through massive life changes, moving countries, learning new languages, and rebuilding my life from scratch, I understand transformation. I understand courage. I understand what it takes to claim your authentic self when the world doesn’t make it easy.
The LGBTQ+ community is especially close to my heart. I approach these ceremonies with:
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Deep respect for your journey and identity
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Genuine celebration of who you are
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Confidentiality and sensitivity throughout the process
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Experience creating safe spaces for vulnerable moments
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Complete lack of judgement, only affirmation and support.
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This work matters to me personally. I'm honoured to be part of your journey.
Who Should Attend?
This is entirely your decision. Some people choose:
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Solo Ceremonies
Just you and me, creating an intimate, private moment of self-affirmation.
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Chosen Family
Close friends and supporters who've been part of your journey and whom you trust to witness this moment.
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Biological Family
If your family is supportive, including them can be meaningful for everyone involved.
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A Mix
Whatever combination feels right and safe for you.
There is no "should" here. Your ceremony, your choice.
Claiming your true name is an act of courage and self-love. You deserve to have that moment honoured, witnessed, and celebrated.
When you're ready, I'm here to help you create a ceremony that marks this beautiful, powerful moment in your journey.